Yesterday was lots of fun...and not lots of fun. :) The morning started out great as we decorated our home for Christmas. Cam had been very excited for this and was VERY into putting ornaments on the tree, which I thought was so neat.
Here they are putting up the outside lights. We don't go crazy, just enough for Cam to think it's cool :) Last year one of my favorite things to do was to walk around our neighborhood with Cam and look at the lights each evening. I'm excited to do that again this year, and hopefully some with Kendall.



Kendall LOVED playing with the village. I had to put a stop to it once she broke off one of the men's heads. What did I expect?? :)

The not so fun part came just as we were about to leave in the afternoon. The plan was for Chris to take Cam out and I to take Kendall. We split up like this sometimes to get some one on one time with the kids.
Anyway, Cam accidentally dropped a huge snow globe, shattering it everywhere. Both Chris and I have learned over the years to NEVER raise our voice at Cam, talk too sternly, or have an angry tone (obviously this doesn't apply in dangerous situations... like if he is running out into the street and I have to yell for him to stop). Any sense that we are unhappy/upset sends him into a funk (won't calm down, keeps talking about it, etc.). Knowing this, I walked in and cheerfully asked him what had happened and proceeded to tell him that we had plenty of snow globes...no big deal! It didn't work. I think the combination of being scared at the shattering, getting a cut involving blood (which, what kid LIKES blood??), and feeling like he did something wrong just sent him over the edge.
It took an hour for him to finally snap out of it. By that time, we had changed the plan and Chris had left with Kendall (Cam wouldn't really leave my side). I think the hard part for Chris and I was that we felt so helpless. We just CAN'T get through to him during times like these. We just have to wait them out. While this was discouraging for us, we did think about the fact that we rarely have things like this happen anymore. So while it was hard, the fact that we used to experience this type of thing much more often is of some comfort.
p.s. Once he snapped out of it, we had a great time going to play at Chick Filet. :)