if I had pinterest, this is what I would pin for the future...

*This Smashed Chickpea and Avocado Salad Sandwich looks sooo tasty. I'm going to attempt it for the kids tomorrow...I wouldn't even dare try it on Chris. :)



*I've tried a tube of polenta before and was not impressed at all. I think I didn't know how to make it so it had much flavor. But I'm willing to give the stuff another shot. This Baked Polenta looks like the ticket.



*This pizza didn't interest me because of the toppings, but the crust. Good heavens is this right up our alley!!!! Thick, thick, thick!!!!



*This 3, 2, 1 Cake is SOOO intriguing to me (disregard the totally unnecessary fruit in the pic!). I read about it a while ago and don't know why I have not tried it yet. Basically it's a dessert for one that takes less than a minute. You mix two dry cake mixes (one has to be angel food). You take 3 tbls. of the cake mix, 2 tbls. water, then microwave for 1 minute. How easy is that??



*This Soft Chewy Wrap Bread looks good and the potato flakes in the recipe make me think it really is that soft.



That's it! Hopefully I'll make at least one of these this week and I'll report back!!

top 5

I recently read a book that definitely ranks in my top five of all time. It is called Unbroken, and I believe I'm a little late in the game as it was on the best seller list for quite a while. It is the true story of the Olympic athlete Louis Zamperini, whose WWII plane crashed and was captured by the Japanese.

It was one of the most fascinating books I've ever read. However the word "fascinating" is almost too positive of a word to describe it. What he went through is utterly unimaginable and made me feel rather pathetic for the things I complain about in my life. While some parts are hard to read (gruesome as far as how he was treated), it is SUCH a good story and I would highly, highly, highly recommend it if you want a book that you just can't put down.

p.s. The author is the same one who wrote Seabiscuit, one that I adored also. Not being a horse person, let alone a racing horse person, the fact that she held my attention soooo well speaks very highly to her writing! :)

grandma and grandpa

I told Chris that while the kids would have loved all the new experiences they would have had were we to have gone to Vegas this past week, I think they had an equally good time at my in-laws' over the weekend. :)

The Pumpkin Patch we always go to was open this weekend. The kids were so excited to go again!






Chris and his dad went golfing and took Cam for the first half. Here he is inspecting the score sheet, which he liked to fill out. :)



Playing around on the front lawn.



p.s. Last night Cam played catcher for his game. He was so cute in his equipment. I wish I could have taken a video of him bending down each time to get the ball. It was like he was in slow motion because he was not used to those bulky knee guards!

*We had Cameron's first T-ball game Wednesday night. It was very cold and Kendall was doing such a great job of watching and playing around the bleachers. I decided a fun treat was in order. French fries seemed to be a hit. :)



*Twice a week we drive to the University of Redlands for speech. Basically the grad students in their speech department work with kids for a semester. They are supervised by a professor, who might pop in every now and then to make suggestions. This semester Cameron has another little girl with him, whom he really enjoys. I sit in an adjacent room, listening on headphones and watching through a one-way mirror. Kendall plays at my feet with some toys. It's neat for me to observe him without him knowing. :) Here is my view:



*Thursday we went to Disneyland. Since Cam didn't have school, we were able to go during the day and have more time there. It was perfect weather and no crowds. My parents joined us and we had a great time.



*Chris surprised me by arranging for us to drop the kids off with my parents last night so they could have a slumber party. We went out for our anniversary. We had a giftcard we had been wanting to use to The Cheesecake Factory. I feel like it's been a while since I've had a "10" of a meal. Last night was it. It was The Roasted Pear and Blue Cheese Flatbread with pecans, caramelized onions, and arugula. It was soooo flavorful! And get ready for this. It was only $5.95!!! It was on their "Skinnylicious" menu (though it sure didn't taste "diet"), so the portion was smaller than their normal, hence the price. It was the perfect amount for me and I was so excited. I texted a picture to my friend, Ana, because she had made a similar one once that I had just raved about :)



*Now I need to go pack for our trip to my in-laws, then we'll head over to pick up the kids and be off!!

10 years

Today we celebrate our 10 year anniversary. I feel like I'm pretty good on this blog about not going on and on all the time about Chris, but I'll ask that you indulge me with a bit of rambling this once considering the special occasion. :) I look back on our time together and can't believe it has gone so fast. We have had many fun memories together, some hard ones, but overall I can't believe I chose the most amazing partner I could ever have imagined.

People often tell you important things you should look for when choosing a partner. When I look back at our dating years, I never remember making sure that Chris had certain qualities, which I should have. But I'm so fortunate that he ended up having so many attributes that have helped make our marriage so easy and fun.

I never thought to analyze how he was with money (which is HUGE!), however I'm so thankful that he is not a spender, going out and buying the latest toys and gadgets all the time. I never thought to talk about the division of labor at our home. And to be honest, no one can prepare you for how your life will change with kids. He turned out to be such an amazing help to me, always taking the initiative to fold laundry, unload the dishwasher, take the kids on an outing, etc. All when I don't even ask. He just sees and does. :) I don't think you can ever 100% accurately predict what someone will be like as a parent (to a certain extent you can, but not fully b/c you don't know the type of children you'll have). But Chris truly loves being a dad and it's so evident in the way he interacts with the kids.

I read a statistic somewhere which stated that the divorce rate for families with special needs kids was 70%. Yikes!! During our most difficult times with Cameron (and many times it wasn't even so much WITH Cameron, it was me being a blubbering wife with all my worry/anxiety), it always seemed like he was strong when I wasn't, and I was strong when he wasn't.

I don't think we ever even talked about what we would do when we had kids (work wise), however I'm so thankful that Chris not only supports me staying at home with the kids, but loves that I do. I often take for granted the burden he bears in supporting our family, especially over the past few years in this economy. I take for granted the nights he stays up well past when I go to sleep, working on a project. I couldn't ask for a better provider.

While the phrase, "I married my best friend" sometimes can sound cheesy because it's used so often, I couldn't think of a better phrase. Despite Chris working from home, I still secretly get bummed when he has plans at night because I know I'll miss him. Except for golf, we pretty much do everything together and I never get tired of it. He is wonderful...truly wonderful. :)

So Happy Anniversary, Chris. I love you so, so, so, so, so much!!!

first hike of my "hiking club"

I put hiking club in parentheses because it isn't exactly official, but I sure want it to head that way after the fun we had today. We met up with three other moms and had a WONDERFUL time. Normally this hike takes us about an hour and 15 minutes. We were gone for 3 hours! The kids stopped along the way to water the trees (they have buckets along the trail for this exact purpose) and played a ton at our lunch stopping point. Cameron did so great in playing with the other boys and Kendall was content to walk, holding my hand most of the way.

I hope to plan more in the future, but it will be hard once Cam goes back to school, which is smack in the middle of the day :( If anyone reading this lives near me and wants to join us sometime, please email me and I'll be sure and include you on my next email invite!

Bummer I took this with my camera and my own son was cut out (on the far right)!!!! :)

saturday

We decided to keep Cam in T-ball and we are glad we did. Today was picture day. Chris woke early to head to Walmart to get an appropriate shirt since he is an assistant coach. It was the saddest $17 he has had to spend in a looong time as the shirt read "Dodgers". This is by far his absolute least favorite team. :) But he put a smile on his face, knowing it was for a good cause...his son. :)



After pictures, we returned home for lunch and Kendall's nap. During her nap, Cameron really wanted to print out maps of different cities. So we sat in front of googlemaps while he blurted out cities for me to print. He then wanted them all put together like one big map so he could draw more roads on them. :)



After nap we headed out to Hemet to a new hiking trail Chris had seen. I'm not sure we'll do it again as it was pretty uneventful, meaning not a lot of ups and downs, twists and turns, which is what Cam really likes. But it was still fun to try a new trail and Kendall actually did much better and took longer to poop out since it was so easy.



After hiking, we headed to WinCo for what we thought would be a very expensive grocery trip. Not so with WinCo!!! I can't believe how inexpensive they are!! For instance, I got yellow squash for 68 cents a pound, Fuji apples for 98 cents a pound, and green peppers for 48 cents each!! We love that store!! And the kids love it to because we let them pick out some candy from their bulk bin section at the end of our shopping. :)



After the kids were in bed, I prepared Chris' splurge meal for the week, Macaroni and Cheese Pizza. I liked it, but I would make a few changes next time. I love the concept as it's so unique. What I LOVED were the Panko bread crumbs you sprinkled on top. Those are so much better than regular bread crumbs! They are bigger and therefore crunchier. :) Sidenote: Last night I made these yummy meatballs and they were wonderful. The kids gobbled them up!!

Right now I'm browsing little girl bedsets. After we potty train (which I'm intending on starting after we return from Chris' parents' next week), I want to move her to a big girl bed. Here are a couple I like: